Your Circle of Support

Tessy, you are very blessed to have your husband by your side while you go through treatment. He is YOUR ROCK! Rely on him for anything you need. He wants and needs to help you.

You have an incredible team of Doctors and Nurses helping you through your treatment. Rely on them to get you through the worse parts of this treatment.

You have cancer support organizations there to help you through each step of the process of your treatment. Take advantage of everything they have to offer.

You have a family. A Father, Sister, and Brothers. We all want to hold you up as you go through your treatment. Allow us to help in any way we can. With a call, or a visit, a small gift or even a special prayer. It's the little things we can do to help support you and Graham.

You have many friends, co-workers, and aquaintances who are rooting for you while you go through your treatment. Let each and every cheerful sound they make, strengthen your will to get through this time.

But ... The key to this circle of support is Communication. Communicating your needs, wants, frustrations, anxiety, fears, discomfort ... is a must. You are allowed to be vocal about what is going on with you. It's not complaining, it's not demanding, It's not trying to control the whole situation, It's not brushing it under a rug and hope that it just magically goes away, and it's definitely not attention seeking. It's you processing everything that is going on, right now. So, don't be silent. Part of your healing process will be you releasing all these feelings so that we who are part of your "Circle of Support" can pour in the Love, comfort and Support that you need.